How Anxiety destroys our relationship with Jesus

Lk 10:38-42 - Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”

Like a small cloud blocking a large sun, anxiety chooses control or pride or selfishness and blocks out the good portion of a simple, uninterrupted relationship with Jesus. Where Martha was trying to get some points for serving and doing good things, it led her to anxiety and a troubled spirit. Mary chose to sit and listen. It was true fear because she understood there was something better there than anything else. True fear realizes the greatness of God and it changes everything. It was not wrong for Martha to serve, but it was wrong to be anxious over her serving and to resent her sister. There are a lot of reason for anxiety and all of them are bad because they take us out of a simple and pure devotion to our Lord. Martha could have had the same devotion in her serving as Mary had in her listening if she would have understood Jesus.

Pr 19:23 - The fear of the Lord leads to life: Then one rests content, untouched by trouble.

Is there any better description than the heart of Mary than this verse? She was content and untouched by trouble because her fear of the Lord led her to true life. I just think that Mary is the solution to so many of our problems, that if we would just sit at the feet of Jesus, in trials, hard times, and even in our busy, stressful times, we would find the perspective and the wisdom to see us through all our trouble.

How fearing God transforms anxiety

Mk 13:9-11 - “But be on your guard. For they will deliver you over to councils, and you will be beaten in synagogues, and you will stand before governors and kings for my sake, to bear witness before them. And the gospel must first be proclaimed to all nations. And when they bring you to trial and deliver you over, do not be anxious beforehand what you are to say, but say whatever is given you in that hour, for it is not you who speak, but the Holy Spirit.

It is one thing to fear when tragedy or difficulty happens suddenly and quite another when you know ahead of time that it is going to happen to you. The disciples were promised abuse, beating, and imprisonment. But, they were also promised something even greater, which is the Holy Spirit speaking through them to the glory of God. The one thing that they were commanded not to do was to be anxious beforehand, but to fear God only, and to trust in Him so that he would say what He needed to say through the disciples. It is amazing how we can interfere with God’s using us when we allow anxiety to interrupt us. Anxiety is essentially a lack of trust in God that He is big enough in the situations to do what he desires to do. All he needs is some people who will trust Him at his Word so that He can accomplish what He desires through our lives for His glory.

Ps 60:4 - But for those who fear you, you have raised a banner to be unfurled against the bow.Selah

This verse seems to really be appropriate in light of Mark 13:9-11 because of it s approach against the enemy. The banner of fearing God is all we need against the enemy. God will fight the battle. Our battle is to remain in the fear of God, fully convinced that He is not only in full control, but will use the situation for His glory. When we start to worry, we must boldly unfurl that banner in the face of evil by coming back to this understanding that fearing God is our first defense and our only defense against the enemy. He will keep us in perfect peace, in His will and living for eternity in the temporary as long as we understand that greater is He who is in us than He who is in the world.

Anxiety replaced by true Fear

Mt 10:19-20 - When they deliver you over, do not be anxious how you are to speak or what you are to say, for what you are to say will be given to you in that hour. For it is not you who speak, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.

I think this is probably the clearest example of the power and intimacy of God working through our lives when you might be tempted towards anxiety. God commands us not to be anxious and the reason we are not to be anxious is because the Spirit of your Father will be speaking through you. Don’t worry about what you will say because God is in control. The opposite of this though, if they chose to worry, God would not be able to speak through them, because they lack faith and thus are not controlled by the Spirit but are in essence controlling themselves and quenching the Spirit. God is always the answer for anxiety. We are anxious because we are trying to control the situation. Anxiety happens when we realize that we are not in control. Jesus reminds us that He is in control of the situation and thus we need to solely depend on Him. When we do that, we will not be anxious.

Ps 40:3-4 - He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the Lord. Blessed is the man who makes the Lord his trust, who does not look to the proud, to those who turn aside to false gods.

I like this verse because it is God who puts the song in our mouths, it is He who glorifies Himself through our words when we fear God instead of fear man. When we trust God, others will learn to fear Him as well. It is God who puts the words in our mouths when we commit to fearing Him only and others will learn to fear.

Fearing God and Blessing

Mt 6:33-34 - But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

We are not to be anxious about tomorrow. We are not to be anxious about anything. Anxiety is fearing trouble upon yourself. Jesus said that we are not to worry about tomorrow because tomorrow will be anxious for itself. There is enough trouble in the day that each day is enough to worry about. But, what is amazing about this command is that before it, it isays to seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. If we seek God and fear God, we will not be anxious about anything. When we consider God and his power, and holiness and goodness and faithfulness, all our anxieties will fade away.

Ps 115:11-13 - You who fear him, trust in the Lord— he is their help and shield. The Lord remembers us and will bless us: He will bless the house of Israel, he will bless the house of Aaron, he will bless those who fear the Lord— small and great alike.

The result and reward of fearing God is blessing. Fearing and trusting in God results in help, a shield and overwhelming blessing. Without faith, it is impossible to please God. Therefore, fearing God brings blessing. When we are anxious, when we fear situations more than we fear God, we will not experience his blessing. This couldn’t be any more clear of a warning for us to not be anxious and an initiation to fear God unto blessing.

Fear that fulfills

Mt 6:25-33 - “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

Anxiety and fear, I think, are sisters. They both feed on the same thing, which is God is not in control and I want to be in control or I am in control or I need to be in control. Anxiety is a lack of trust in God and the recognition that the situation is to big for me to control. Anxiety is fearing harm or loss of something valuable, and thus fear fears the unknowable. Anxiety is merely our body sounding an alarm that I am trying to control something I have no business or ability to control. Someone may say, "I am not fearful. I am just anxious." They are basically the same thing and thus it is necessary for us to treat them as the same evil distraction which seeks to displace the sovereignty and goodness of God from His rightful throne in our lives.

Ps 34:9 - Fear the Lord, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing.

Anxiety worries over a lack of something or losing something, whereas fearing the Lord leads us to a place of provision and peace so that we lack nothing. It really is one or the other. And the promise awaits fulfillment if we walk in faith and fear of the lord.

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Fear that hopes

Ro 8:14-17 - For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.

Slavery produces fear. Serving produces trust. When we don’t fear God, we will fear something else. Those who fear God receive a Spirit of Adoption that allows for an intimate relationship where instead of a cold, dead relationship, there is an intimate fatherly relationship. The Spirit bears witness that we are children of God, who have all the rights of being a son and a heir to all that is ours for inheritance. It is true that we will suffer, but it isn’t nothing to be afraid of, because we have the promise of a God who cares for us and a future inheritance awaiting us.